Expectations

• I want a guy who is taller than me when I wear heels.
• I want a guy who can sing.
• I want a guy who can rap.
• I want a guy who is good at sports/athletics.
• I want a guy who can dance.
• I want a guy who can cook.
• I want a good looking guy.
• I want a smart guy.
• I want a guy who is rich.
• I want a guy who has a goal in life.
• I want a guy who is funny.

Coolest Story Ever!!

Okay I lied in the title, but if I called it what I really wanted, then most of you wouldn't read... You'll probably be disgusted by the moistness of it, but I think a lot of people would benefit from it.... So.. here it goes...

Love is an ugly, terrible business practised by fools. It'll trample your heart and leave you bleeding on the floor. And what does it really get you in the end? Nothing but a few incredible memories that you can't ever shake! 

 Or ...

Love isn't about ridiculous little words. Love is about grand gestures, Love is airplanes pulling banners over stadiums, proposals on jumbo-trons, giant words in sky writing. Love is about going that extra mile even if it hurts, letting it all hang out there. Love is about finding courage inside  of you that you didn't even know was there. 

Or ...

I guarantee that there'll be tough times; I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us is gonna wanna get out of this thing: But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life... because I know in my heart that you're only one for me. 

Or...

Love is like the wind... you can't see it, but you feel it.

Or... 

Love is that can't eat, can't sleep, reach for the starts, over the fence, world series kinda stuff....

Or...


I could actually go on and on, with quotes from songs and movies and poems and plays and books and articles and speeches and proposals and whatnots, but that doesn't make a difference. Love is what ever you make of it, it's not something you can put a finger on. It's not something you see in the shop and point out to everyone. So when you say you're looking for love, 'the love that they have', you'll NEVER find it, because they've created what they have. They've taken their feelings and redesign it to suit their lifestyle, made it theirs. That's why it's their love. Love is NOT common thing, Love isn't the same for everyone, Love is not comparing others to you, Love is .....


I say I don't believe in love and maybe that's true, I mean I don't see myself abiding by those things I've said up there. What I believe is that love has no definition. Nobody knows what Love is, but we all know what it isn't. It's probably why people who say 'I'm looking for love' or 'I can't wait to fall in love' don't find or fall in love. 

My opinion, feel free to disagree... but yeah...
Another page from Toni's book.!!

xxx