Wednesday 17 December 2014

Why am I single?

We're well into December already!!
I swear, I didn't even realise this was the third week of the month, everything is moving so quick.
That being said, this month has been good for feedback, especially in unrelated terms. People who I've not pressured to the blog have come here and well yeah... it makes me happy.

Anyways, today's post has come from a number of discussions I've had with guys and what they don't like, find unattractive (behaviour wise) with females. It's not 100% accurate or applicable and it's not serious, but as with all posts up here, there's an element of truth in it. I don't believe this is WHY people are single btw - just some. Lol.

So enjoy...


Why am I single?



Excuse me?
It’s seems this polite line is actually an invitation
For girls to start getting rude.
He’s just a nice guy, trynna get your attention
Yet, you feel it necessary to give him attitude?
I laugh.
You see he wanted to tell you, whats was underneath your shoe,
That you were dragging along a trail of tissue.
But with you, you all might divaness, became the issue.
So he just let you slide.
While in his mind, you’re a proper right bitch
And You stay wondering why every guy’s not it
When in fact you shut down the possibility oh so quick
With your rolling of eyes and nasty hiss
Ask yourself…. 
Why am I single?

‘She’s busy right now, she don’t want to talk.
She’s not interested, can you just walk?’
When you’re not the girl in question.
Yet you feel it necessary to ward of all men,
Like thy are a plague and you divine intervention.
I laugh.
You see, he’s looked up your friend, and your part of the game.
She’s only using you, as an excuse, someone to blame
And you’re left with the stupid friend name
Because you weren’t really wise
My dear friend open your eyes
It’s that ever talking friend the lads despise
So why be it necessary to dip your hand into the oil where another’s plantain fries.
Ask yourself….
Why am I single

Look what Jade has got, 
Look how Thomas love Sarah.

A role model relationship that is not yours.
And you stay dreaming bout another girls man.
Who presumably opens doors….
I laugh…
Have you pulled at that door?
Do you know what lies behind it?
Have you ever considered, I mean even tried it?
The man for you might just be
On the other side you see.
But that can’t come to you obviously
If you stay watching others obliviously
Ask yourself….
Why am I single?

She doesn’t have to know?
She’s not really my friend
The lengths you went through
To put her ex in your bed
I laugh…
You thought he’d stay  with you when he ‘leaves her’
Girl a guy like that is NEVER a keeper
Old habits die hard, he’s not ready to change
So from you to another,
Why does that seem strange?
Cos he told you he loves you?
He told her that too….
But you still took him from her
And someone else has from you
So really…
Ask yourself…
Why am I single?

I don’t NEED to learn how to cook,
Just because he likes to eat
I can grind on other men on the club
He’s the only one getting this treat
I laugh…
Girl, I mean child, Are really that stupid?
Or is brain not functional, or are you just naïve?
Do you really feel your man should not be pleased?
Physically, sexually and emotionally?
Are you really unwilling to compromise?
Or you think on your terms is where your relationship lies.
Are you fully convinced that your ways take control??
Woe is you.
Ask yourself…
Why am I single

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